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Janna Skroch's avatar

I think you asked me the "which means" on our first call together. I think I remember not getting it. In my head, I must have been coming at it from a different angle. At the time, I was frustrated that I wasn't getting what you were asking.

I get it now, though. When I talk about Life is a Mind Game - Be a Winner, I have to ask myself, which means a bunch of times, to get to the root of what that would mean to me. Everyone will have their own version of what that looks like.

Jim Chianese's avatar

Haha, yes, you and a couple of people were the ones that straight up told me you were about to get overly frustrated with me.

It all worked out, because you are committed to your legacy.

Janna Skroch's avatar

At the time, the "Which Means" questioning made me feel stupid, and I thought, "He must think I'm stupid."

I'm putting myself through a "which means" exercise right now. Right now, I believe my real root is self-mastery. Gamifying it makes the invisible visible, ie, the subconscious visible.

Some questions I'm asking myself...

*Why do I feel the need to accomplish self-mastery (my panic attack story)?

*What does self-mastery look and feel like to me?

*What are the goal posts that I can use to know I'm achieving self-mastery?

*Categories: Happy, healthy, wealthy, wise.

By the way, I don't think I mentioned that I trademarked the phrase "I Create My Life Today" about ten years ago.

Charles Wood's avatar

I love this video and I love that you're doing videos instead of only posting! 🎉

Jim Chianese's avatar

I appreciate that, Charles, thank you. Yeah, as a 2-finger, hunt-and-peck typist, video lets me get my thoughts out faster.

I hope they will resonate with readers and educate them even more than my articles do.

As you know, I also love coaching people through Live Meetings.